Question Queen on Royal Throne! asked:


My family members keep playing mind games about who my real father is. They said that the man named on my birth certificate isn't my father, but plenty of people say we look a lot like him. My mom's Black & maybe Indian, & he's a Louisiana Creole. He's DEFINITELY mixed with French & Indian (Native American) & maybe Black, as well. Since they have African American & Native American ancestry, I wonder how I can get a DNA or blood test without my family or him knowing because all hell would break loose if I were to try the cheek swab.

All I would need to do is see if I have Caucasian in my blood, & then I'll have my FINAL answer. If the test says I have white in me, then I KNOW he's my father. That's the only way. My mom, I don't think she's mixed with white, but the Indian is possible because of her light brown complexion & light brownish-gray eyes. She has very coarse hair, & my supposed dad has STRAIGHT, glossy, silky hair & slanted eyes like an Asian.

I'm light brown like my mom, but many people say I have chinky eyes like him, & also, I have thick, wavy, silky hair. It can get dry & coarse-looking, but when I wash & style it, you can see the silkiness in my hair.

1 dark-skinned social worker I had about 12 yrs. ago, told me that her doctor told her through blood test that she's mixed with white, & she didn't believe him, & she was lke, "How could this be?" because she's dark.

But my family is trying to degrade me by saying my dad is a nappy-headed, cripple man in a wheelchair & has big, bubbly eyes. My mom has big bubbly eyes. & they say the man on my birth certificate isn't my dad. Should I just ignore their comments & nasty remarks & go on to believe that the man named on my birth certificate IS my dad? Or should I try to pursue getting a blood DNA test to tell what I'm mixed with.

Also, my mom, & my siblings lie about everything, always have secrets to keep & something to hide. & they're older than me & are still very immature, but most of them are paranoid schizophrenic, & my mom is delusional, & my siblings follow her delusions like it's a religion.

Celtic Latino asked:


What if you were to take a DNA ancestry cell/blood test and it turned out that you actually have either blood/ancestry of the race/background/ethnicity you dislike/hate (from a grandparent, great-grandparent) or have mixed blood yourself. Then what would you say?
Would you continue to hate (even if that means self-hate) or would you get over yourselves already?
Maria- but you know how some of these people get over "one drop" too.

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